Monday, September 28, 2015

JOSH ARRIVES IN HONG KONG

August  11, 2015

Dear parents,

We are grateful for your wonderful children who have been called by the Lord to serve here in the China Hong Kong Mission. We just want you to know that they are here safe and sound, cheerful and enthusiastic and ready to serve. We love them already.

We will have a more formal picture of them tomorrow over at the mission home.

Best regards,

President and Sister Lam


TRAVEL PLANS

Family,

Thanks for the Dear Elder's, packages, thoughts, and inspiring stories and examples.  Thanks to Grandma for the snacks too and the Gibby's for the nice letters.
Mom - I don't need any cough drops, they have some in the MTC store.  The cough is never ending though.  It's been about 2 and a half weeks now.  Quick story about that.  During one of our lessons with our investigators, I was coughing so bad, he had us leave, he was worried about getting sick.  It's not that bad though, just a little annoying.  Besides that I feel great.  No more feeling lethargic or bad headaches.  I twisted my ankle pretty bad playing basketball on Wed. which was a bummer.  I jumped up to block this kid's shot and came down on the side of my right foot.  I didn't think it was going to be too bad.  One of the people in charge of the gym had me ice it for the rest of the gym time and I walked backed to the residence just fine.  Thursday morning was horrible.  It hurt really bad.  I could barely walk on it, even with a brace Elder Anderson let me borrow.  I was being half carried to breakfast by Elder Kirschner and Elder Woolley.  Since then it hasn't been too bad.  I just can't play basketball anymore, which is a real bummer, it hurts too much to play on.  It is still pretty swollen today and I am still wearing the brace, but it should be better soon. The song is not going to happen.  We don't have it good enough.  We really never had time to practice it since being called as zone leaders and there isn't enough time to learn it now that we are released.  We did perform it for our district when we had a little down time before the devotinoal since there isn't choir practice on fast sunday.  It was fun to play it, even though it didn't sound too great.  I also played the beebe piece How great thou art, while we were there.  It was fun to play the piano a little. I think I am being more patient with myself.  Only thing I maybe could use would be some sleeping pills for the plane ride.  We have a 16 hr flight from Seattle to Hong Kong.  And maybe some salt and vinegar chips, my roommates and I love them. and some baby powder.  I guess people get chaffing really bad and athletes foot in the humidity and never wearing breathable shoes.  Thanks so much.
Dad - the money on the credit card came from laminations just so you know and maybe a few other things from the MTC store.  I laminated the covers of my preach my gospel and some other books so they don't fall apart as quick.  Also thanks for sharing your inspiring commitment to live with Integrity.  That is really amazing.  I am so grateful for your example to me always.  

Travel plans came this week which was really fun to get. My knees are getting really calloused from all the kneeling which is kind of weird.  Skype went a lot better this week.  The member was nice to us and spoke a little slower so we could kind of understand a little bit.  Also Elder Woolley's mom sent him a paddle ball.  So we tried it out at night.  It actually is way fun.  We are having a fierce competition every night to see who can get the highest score.  The  first night, it was at 13, which I held.  Then Elder Woolley got 22 and we went back and forth till I ended up with the record of 82 for the night.  Then Elder Kirschner came out of no where and got 132 or something like that the next day, but over the course of the night I got 292 and held the record for the night.  Last night Kirschner took the record to 386 and I couldn't beat it.  So he held the record for the night.  I then got up to 477 I think this morning and had it for a while till my comp who was stuck in the low hundreds got 482 and was pumped and kind of rubbing it in my face.  Which was great because I took it from him and got 651, which quieted him down.  He only had the record for a few minutes.  Nobody has beaten it yet.  It keeps getting harder to beat because the ball keeps snapping of the string and we have to keep retying it.  

I might write you a letter later today or tonight and send it off probably tomorrow because I might not get through everything in an hr I'd like to say.  We do have more time to write now, since I can't do too many sports with my lame ankle.  

One of the great blessings of being on this mission is learning better the language of the Spirit.  We are often reminded that we will come home from the mission having learned 2 languages not just one.  The language of Chinese and the language of the Spirit.  One aspect of recognizing the promptings we receive from God that I love and have come to recognize more this week is this.  We can recognize the spirit by paying attention to what presses on our minds the most.  Especially with all that is going on in our lives the Holy Ghost will help us know what we should do through this.  Joseph Smith talks about it in Doctrine and Covenants 128:1.  He felt to talk on the baptism for the dead to the Church because as he said, "that subject seems to occupy my mind, and press itself upon my feelings the strongest." I know that as we pay attention to what is pressing on our minds the most, we can know what we should do for the Lord.

I also like what Alma 17 teaches us.  in v 29, Ammon teaches us that we can make any situation into a teaching situation and a situation where we can lead people to believe more in Christ.  v36 reminds us to be brave and bold in proclaiming the gospel and trust in the Lord to help us if we are doing his will.  Also we learn that serving others softens hearts.  Because of Ammon's faithful service and his ability to teach with power and authority, which came from fasting and praying often, he was able to convert King Lamoni and many others as a result.  

Also in Priesthood and our District Meeting on Sunday there were some cool things I learned about Faith.  Mom, I know you love this and helped point this out to me via your note in my scriptures.  We learn that strong faith is developed by obedience to the gospel of Jesus Christ and by righteousness.  And then as we are obedient, we see the fruits of the experiment and that increases our faith, which gives us a stronger desire to improve and be obedient.  This process leads us to becoming more fully like our Savior.  I also love how all the of the Christlike attributes support each other and often when you are developing one attribute you are also developing another.  In Alma 32:6, we learn that humility is crucial to be in preparation to hearing the word, As we are teachable and depend on the Lord, then our faith will increase as we find that the Lord really does strengthen us and help us.  I also love in v 41-43 of Alma 32 the three attributes necessary to grow the seed.  In each verse, it mentions faith, diligence and patience.  They are all necessary and support each other.  We need to always stay diligent in developing anything we want to develop and have the faith to believe that it will happen.  If we don't have the patient to see the fruits, they will not come.  Our life is not a quick 3:38 second clip where we change from a clumsly fighter, to the best in a short amount of time. (Rocky) (Our choir directors gave us this analogy).  We have to be patient.  If we are not, we might lose our faith, or lose the spirit as we become frustrated.  As we are patient, our faith is strengthened and we have a greater desire to be diligent.

This week I have studied a lot about Diligence.  I'll send you a letter about this I don't have time anymore online to write.  I also will send a letter about some of the awesome things I learned from the Devotionals this week and some great things I've read from my mission prep class notes.  It is kind of a weird rule.  We can only email for 60 min, but I can write letters all I want, but only on P-day.  

Thanks for all your prayers.  I know this gospel is true.  I know Jesus Christ Atonement is real.  I know the Holy Ghost can guide and lead us to what we should do.  

Love,

Elder Stratford
 Got travel plans this week.  I'll send you a pick of the plans.  I'll be able to talk to you either in the morning in Salt Lake, or in Seattle after I land.  Just sending out a quick email to let you know cause I believe we can call home for an hour. If you could send me a disposable phone with an hour or two on it.  I don't know how it works.  Let me know if you can figure it out.  I'll check back later today and send out my big email.  Thanks.

Love,

Elder Stratford
 My swollen ankle
 Travel tags.  the top say shi zhang lao
 the bottom says, yesu jidu houqi shengtu jiaohui or jesus christ latter saint church

 elder kirschner paddling

 travel plans
 Elder Woolley left his dry cleaned suit in the room, so came to class in his sweat shorts.
 paddle ball


​random selfie coming back from getting the laundry.  I forgot to take a lot of pics, so I was trying to get a few in at the last minute.

COMMITMENT

July 27, 2015
Family,

Thanks for all the snacks, pics, socks, and Dear Elder's.  I appreciate it.

Dad - Comp is great.  He is probably better at mandarin then most of the district who already took Mandarin before.  Slatter is doing well, the language is hard for him though, like everybody.
Mom - Week is good.  Still coughing a lot, but I don't have horrible headaches any more or feel cold.  It is fun to have a new comp for a few hours.  We got an international missionary from England who came on Tuesday, so he was with us Tuesday night till his Comp came Wed.  We got to give all the new missionaries we got in our zone, 22 missionaries, 20 elders and 2 sisters, an orientation and show them around the MTC Wednesday night.  Our zone is huge now.  We have 62 and are getting 4 new fast track missionaries coming this week.  My comp is great.  We got released on Sunday from being Zone Leaders.  Nothing is driving me crazy except maybe this language, but I am trying my best to be patient and diligent.  I keep seeing more BYU friends, which is a lot of fun.  A lot came in this past week.  The Mandarin is fine.  I am no way prepared tot leave though.  We almost never lose at Spikeball, though the younger missionaries are getting better so there is more competition.  There are no missionaries that I know of that have had to go home.  The temple was great this morning and I learned a lot from it.  My favorite thing about the MTc is probably the Devos and the district meeting afterwards.  Very inspiring and edifying. I'm not too nervous for leaving, mostly excited.  I am sleeping ok, better the past few days.  I don't know if the musical number will work out since we haven't had any time.  We will have more time these next 2 weeks, so we will see what happens.  I'll let you know.  I'd love a character book.  I wouldn't start learning it till probably a year into the mission, but it would be nice to have to study once I learn the language for language study.  I'll send you a pic of the one my comp is studying, seems to be a pretty good one. Thanks.

Last Monday we had the opportunity to give our first Skype lesson with a Sister living in Taiwan.  It was really interesting.  We taught her about Charity.  She talked a lot, which was good.  We probably talked no more than 5 min of the 30.  We thought it went well, although we understood about nothing.  Afterword, one of our teachers told us she thought that it went well.  Our teacher said that the sister we taught told us a story about how she had been arguing with one of the members of her ward.  She had been studying a little about Charity and this lesson was what she needed to hear.  That was good to hear.  But, we got weird feedback. One of our other teachers skyped her back to get feedback from her about how she thought our lesson went.  He told us back in the classroom, that apparently the person we taught felt darkness when we taught her.  That was pretty weird.  We are not sure how that happened.  I think we might have responded wrong after she shared that personal story with us.  We might have said something encouraging and supportive when she shared she had got into an argument. I have no idea how that happened.  I think the biggest thing I learned and probably what contributed to this was that often my companion and I would nod our heads and say dui, when she was talking.  (This is kind of like a quick response like someone would give in spanish when they close a phrase with "no?" not really looking for someone to respond just looking for confirmation. They often say dui bu dui, which is kind of like "correct, not correct.") I think she might have thought we understood more than we did.  Also, two other Elders in our district who Skyped, had a sister who was Skyping them while she was riding her motorcyle down the streets of Taiwan.  They couldn't hear anything and were worried for her safety.  Kind of funny.  

I had a cool answer to a prayer this week.  I prayed during personal study, I believe, that I could find an opportunity to help somebody and strengthen my testimony of prayer.  Just after personal study, my comp and I went outside to find a place on a bench to do our personal study.  Everyplace we usually go was full, so we decided to come back to our building and find a classroom to do our comp study.  As we were walking in the doors, two of the new Elders were walking out, stopped us, and asked us if we could give them a blessing since we were their leaders at the time.  We are able to give them a blessing of comfort and help one of the Elders feeling really overwhelmed with the first few days.  That was a very quick answer to my prayer and strengthened my testimony of the power of prayer.  

Also we had a cool opportunity to teach each other during one of our class times.  Our teacher had us break off with a different missionary and teach for 20 min about whatever the Spirit guided us to do.  This was to be real and we were not supposed to act as an investigator, just have a real teaching opportunity and learn from each other.  I got to teach and learn from Kong Zhong Lao, Elder Kirschner, from our district.  He is a stud from Gainsville Florida who played lacrosse on the BYU team this past year.  He has been our District Leader the past 3 weeks and just got released.  I taught first, this was all in Mandarin, so that made it harder, but we talked for a little bit and I asked him if there was anything he wanted to learn.  He said there wasn't.  I had him give a quick prayer, and during the prayer my mind kept going back to something he had said just earlier about he was studying about, Humility.  I decided to teach about this.  I turned to James 4 and read some scriptures from there and felt like I should share a few lines from Beware of Pride from Benson. I could feel the spirit strong as I was teaching and testifying.  Afterwords, he told me that was exactly what he need to hear and he had learned a lot.  That was a cool blessing and tender mercy that I could help him a little.  He taught me a little bit about Diligence.  I loved what he pointed our in PMG.  It says something like, "Diligence is working effectively and efficiently."  He pointed out that Diligence is not just working hard, but effectively and efficiently.  He challenged me to reevaluate everyday and see how I did and how I could be better at following these 2 things better.  It was great.  That was what I needed to hear.  He is a stud.  I spend the next personal study learning more about diligence and learned a lot.  

We were studying in 2 Nephi 9 this past week.  I think we were doing it with our companions.  I really loved Jacob's constant praise and gratitude as he is talking about Jesus Christ.  You can just tell he had a burning testimony of the Savior, and was overflowing with gratitude as he is talking.  v8 "O the wisdom of God, his mercy and grace." v10 "O how great the goodness of our God." v13 "O how great the plan of our God." v17 "O the greatness and the justice of our God." v19 "O the greatness of the mercy of our God, teh Holy One of Israel." v20 "O how great the holiness of our God!" I love these verses and think it is important that we are always grateful to our God.  We really have been blessed so much and as we count our many blessings, naming them one by one, it will surprise us what the Lord has done.  

Liao Liaoshi told us about a process he uses to become better that was told him by his Mission President.  He explained how important it was to follow in our missions and especially important after our missionaries are over.  It is a good way to become better.  I forget where the scripture is found, but we start by asking ourselves, "What lack I yet?" From this we ask ourselves, "What to I need to do?" and then, "Therefore, What?" After this we should ask ourselves, "What lack I yet?" As we follow this circular process, we will constantly improve and become better.  

Our investigators are great.  We are still teaching 4 investigators.  2 of them have baptismal dates the next two weeks.  They are awesome.  We are teaching them a lot of the commandments this week, the hard ones being Tithing, Word of Wisdom, Chastity, and Keeping the Sabbath Day Holy, so we will see how it goes. They all have a desire to follow Christ and be better and I think because of their faith, they will accept these.  We are pretty sure most they are already keeping.

One thing I loved from the Devotional Tuesday night was a statement the Devotional Speaker, Brother Walker, said.  He is an emeritus member of the Seventy.  He said, "Every time you commit your investigator to do something, commit yourself to do the same thing for the rest of your life."  As we do this, we will have current testimonies of the things we are teaching and can bear testimony with power and conviction.  This will also make sure we are always doing what we should, not being hypocrites, and living lives of Integrity.  

Another thing I learned this week is that God gives us further instructions and guidance only after we have followed and kept the commandments and guidance He has already given us.  We can't expect to continue to ask for things and hope things will happen if we are not diligently following and doing the things he has already inspired us to do, through our leaders and through the words of the prophets.  

Thanks for all your prayers for me.  I am very grateful for them and for you.  I know that God answers our prayers.  I know that as we teach, the teacher and the learner are both edified together.  I know that if we ask God, we can know how best to serve His children and lift them up for Him.  

Love,

Elder Stratford

SICK IN THE MTC

July 20, 2015 
Family,

Thanks for all the Dear Elders.  Grandma and Grandpa thanks for the snacks, letter, pic and money.  I appreciate it.  I have the pic on my desk now.
Hope Lake Powell went well.  Sounds like it did, except for Sadie's crash.

If you have time, I could use 6 more of those tide ball things, some dark brown socks (I can't wear the other ones, they are too light. President Teng told me I couldn't wear them, and it does say in the handbook to have socks that are dark in color), a laminated pic of the family, some more cinnamon taffy (for the sisters in my district, they love it), and some more kettle salt and vinegar chips.  If you don't have time, don't worry about it. Thanks.

Elder Slater will be in our Zone.  We got pics of all the new elders this Sunday.  That sounds horrible what happened to Grace. Liza left Tuesday for England. 


This week was a good week.  We had a good Devotional from Brother Banks who is a emeritus member of the Seventy.  He shared a lot of cool things.  I'll tell you a few of them.  He shared with us something President Hinckley said to the missionaries.  "Don't let the Lord down...We should not love a life of mediocrisy...I see you as companions in this work." He also shared a cool quote from President McKay, "A man radiates what he is." That is a great reminder to always be developing our character. As we are continually to live by the Spirit, we will become more like our Savior.  As we become more like our Savior, we will help, lift and strengthen others.  People will see this and we can strengthen them, even though we might not do anything that directly benefits them.  I can think of a lot of examples of this.  A lot of awesome people I know just because of who they are, makes me want to be better than I am. He reminded us to be 100% obedient.  I am definitely still learning the importance of this.  At the Sunday Devotional yesterday, the wife of the speaker always speaks first for a few minutes and she talked about obedience.  She said she would always ask the missionaries, while she was the Mission President's wife, just as they were getting ready to go home, what made them successful missionaries.  She said almost everybody said, especially those who were great missionaries, that they learned to be exactly obedient.  I think as the Lord knows he can trust us to obey all He asks us to do, then He will put people in our path to help.

I have been trying to implement the counsel in 3 Nephi 17:3 and can testify that it works.  We can learn a lot from doing the things in this verse in our study of the gospel.  As I was reading Character of Christ this week I learned a really cool principle I have never understood before.  We read in Moroni 7:47 I believe about charity.  It says "and whoso is found possessed of it..." Elder Bednar helped me understand that just by doing all that we can, we are not give n the gift.  We need to "honor our covenants and live worthily and do all that we can to qualify for the gift; but ultimately the gift of charity possesses us--we do not posses it. The Lord determines if and when we receive all spiritual gifts, but we must do all in our power to desire and yearn and invite and qualify for such gifts." I never understood this.  I thought if we did what we needed to, we earned the gift.  That is not the case.  These attributes really are gifts from God.  We still need to do all in our power, but ultimately the Lord decides.  As I have been doing other reading this week, so many things agree with this principle.  I just never realized.  

I was also reminded this week of something President Holland once said.  He said something like, "It seems that the commandment we have the hardest time keeping and we break the most is the commandment to be of good cheer." D&C 123:17 says, "Let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power." We are asked to be cheerful about all we do.  I'm sure I was reminded of this through the Spirit because it is something I need to do a better job at.  It goes along with optimism, which I can improve at.  It wasn't a coincidence last year at BYU I was asked to give a talk on Bruce Porter's talk.  

I loved what I read in Alma 26:22.  To be able to bring souls unto repentance we need to do 4 things. 1.  Repent ourselves. 2.  Exercise faith. 3.  Bring forth good works. and 4.  Pray continually without ceasing.  Simple formula and amazing promise if we keep those guidelines with exact obedience.  

I liked what I read in PMG this week on extending commitments.  I think I do an ok job of making sure I always bear testimony and make promises after extending a commitment, but I learned of some things I have not been doing well and could improve.  When we extend commitments, we always need to explain the Lord's promised blessings.  The investigator is more likely to obey and follow a commitment if they see how it can help them and how it has personal relevance for them.  Also, in order to promise blessings with power and testify with power, we need to make sure that the invitation is important personally to us and has personal meaning to us.  

I love the hymn Come Come Ye Saints.  Such a powerful hymn and an amazing testimony builder.  "Come Come ye Saints not toil nor labor fear; but with joy wend your way.  Though hard to you this journey may appear, Grace shall be as your day...Why should we mourn or think our lot is hard? 'Tis not so; all is right.  Why should we think to earn a great reward if we now shun the fight?" What a powerful message.  These pioneers are going through all these afflictions and troubles with so much joy.  Their faith is amazing. If we had their faith, we would never become discouraged or give full effort. Plus our trials are not anything compared to theirs. They also knew they had grace with them always.  The Savior was with them every step of the way.  This is great knowledge to have.  Why should we think that anything we are going through is hard. If we had their faith, we could say, 'Tis not so; all is right.  If we do not do all we can and give our full effort, how can we expect to earn a great reward.  They then counsel, "Gird up your loins, fresh courage take, our God will never us forsake" God will never leavfe us alone, we just have to invite Him and allow Him to help us.  

This week has been one of my hardest weeks, but I learned a lot.  I think I need to make renewed effort in focusing on others.  On seeking out the one.  I am continually reviewing "Beware of Pride" from Benson.  I keep seeing so much Pride that I need to eliminate from my life.  I need to make sure I am focusing on listening and recognizing the Spirit at all times.  That is the most important thing to do.  Like President Eyring said we should ask God in prayer, "It doesn't matter what else I may be able to do, just let me know what I can do, I know that I can with Thy help." I am going to do better with this.  I am going to try to better recognize the hand of the Lord in my life as well.  I think as we do this, we will better see all that He does for us, and our hearts will fill with thanksgiving to Him.  

I love the counsel given in John 5:44 "How can ye believe, which receive honour one of another and seek not the honour that cometh from God only." I get caught in this trap too often.  It is very important to make sure that the things we are doing and the motives behind them are to please God.  Too often we are too worried of receiving honour of men and that takes presidence over the honour of God.  We should be always doing those things that please God even if it seems weird or out of the way. It is easy to tell ourselves.  It doesn't really matter.  It's not that big of a deal. What difference will it make anyway? Well, it does matter and it is a big deal. The small matters accumulate to shape the direction of our lives.  When we are given promptings from God, it is rarely convient for us to do, but we need to follow them.

Thanks for all your prayers.  I am grateful for each of you and for your inspiring examples.  I hope we can all rely on the Lord more fully, and follow His guidance more closely.  I know that as we do this, we will be blessed.

Love,

Elder Stratford

 ​I've been pretty sick the past few days.  Had a really bad headache and had the chills.  Most of Sunday I wore a coat over my suit coat and this pic was take just before bed, I was really cold.
 This was Wang Jie Mie's last night in the MTC. She is the Sister in blue in the middle.  She was on the fast track and is now in San Fransisco speaking Mandarin.  This pose apparently means love in Taiwan.
​This is Elder Larson. BYU friend who left this morning at 3 for St. Petersburg Russia.  A lot of people are leaving today and tomorrow.  It's crazy.
Spikeball

Tuesday, September 8, 2015

ALL CHINESE DAY = HUGE HEADACHE

July 13, 2015

Family,

Thanks for the dried apples, chips and pretzels.  They are awesome, especially the dried apples.

Sadie - MTC till Aug 10-12. Not sure when I leave yet.  I don't get travel plans till about 1.5 weeks till we leave.  I cannot speak the language well yet, although I can get my point across.  The food is all the same, but fine.  It's nice I don't have to cook for myself. Saves time.
Dad - The assignments for the zone leaders aren't that much.  They last 3 weeks long.  We assign people to teach priesthood, organize sacrament besides the speakers, interview all the district leaders.  We have a lot of meetings Sunday mornings with the Branch Presidency and other leaders which takes up the 3 hrs we used to have Sunday mornings to study.  We have to do some others stuff when new missionaries come in, but we didn't have any last wed and I we aren't getting any this wed.  
Mom - There are 6 Mandarin zones, though 2 of them leavetomorrow morning.  Liza is in the other mandarin zone.  I see her quite a bit.  She is just a few classrooms down.  I report to the branch president.  The investigators are members.  They are actually our teachers who act as people they taught on their missions.  Our zone has the coolest teachers out of all the Mandarin teachers I feel like.  We have one dude who you can just tell is a stud, Liao Liaoshi.  He is half chinese and half vietnamese.  Our other teachers is OuYang Liaoshi.  He is a stud too.  He is from central america.  He speaks fluent spanish, english and chinese.  It is funny teaching them.  Sometimes when we need to call our investigators, they take off their teaching tag and pull out a pen and we use pens as phones to talk to them.  They just start speaking really fast.  When our teacher is going to be an investigator, he always says he is going to eat food.  When he comes back from being an investigator, we ask him how his food was.  They make no acknowledgement that they are investigators.  Pretty funny.  The time is flying.  I can't believe I am already more than halfway done at the MTC, but yet it feels like I have been here for a long time.  Our lessons are fine.  The doctrine is fine, no problems there.  It is just being able to communicate what I want that is frustrating.  Sister Bain is going to Taiwan. Her name is Bei Jie Mei. I probably won't be performing our piece for a while, since we have lost most of our time with little stuff we have to do for the zone.  The old zone leaders leave tomorrow morning.


This week was a good week. We got to clean the temple last Monday.  That was kind of cool.  We were asked to clean the base of the chairs in the endowment rooms where they are bolted into the carpet.  We took little brushes like toothbrushes and brushed our any dirt, hair or whatever might have found it's way there. Then we go with a damp soapy rag and wipe it down.  Then we go with q-tips and clean all around where we couldn't get earlier.  They sure do a deep clean.  After that we cleaned and vacuumed the chairs, cleaned the floor boards all around 3rd floor.  We had a lot of elders doing other crazy deep cleans for the rest of the temple.  There were 6 sisters who spend the whole 3 hrs just cleaning one chandelier.  and that was a smaller one in one of the sealing rooms.  I can't imagine the one in the celestial room of the provo temple.  That one must take weeks.  

We had an all Chinese day on Friday.  That was really hard. We couldn't say anything in English all day.  I had a huge headache by the end of the day.  It just fries your brain trying really hard to understand everybody all day.  

We get to be investigators now to each other in the zone.  That also takes up much of our add study time, teaching and being taught with our district.  It is great to be an investigator.  We did this a lot in mission prep class at BYU.  He actually had us go in groups of three with 1 teacher and 2 investigators to teach.  This is because you learn a lot more about how to be a good teacher from being an investigator than you do from teaching.  

Elder Woolley and I dominate at Spikeball.  It is this new game that caught on at  BYU this past year and they have 2 nets out at the field of the MTC that we play on. I'll have to send you a pic next week. It's really fun. You play 2 one two. You use a little ball and a volleyball net in a circle a few feet off the ground.  You get 3 hits to bounce it off the net. If the ball hits the ground it is the other teams point.  I don't know if that makes any sense.  Anyway, it's a blast.  

Some funny things with the language.  During our TRC (this is where we teach members or real investigators who volunteer to come and let us teach them for 20 min on Sat.) I was trying to use the word specifc which I thought was juti (2nd tone one the u and a 3rd tone on the i). I was wrong. I guess it means pigs feet.  I might of been pronouncing the tones wrong.  Anyway, specific is actually teding, no idea on the tones.  Also, one of the sisters in our district was explaining to our teacher that she needed to call the investigator. She accidentally said she needed to "poop words" instead of "hit electric words" (phone call).  

We got to attend President Packer's funeral on Friday. I don't know if you got to watch it, but I'll say some things I liked from it.  Ballard or Oaks said that Packer always said, "Let the pending items pend." when they were trying to make a decision.  I think that was cool.  This can relate to revelation and answers to questions.  We are promised that the Lord will answer our questions, but we need to know that it will not always be answered quickly.  Bednar said in the closing prayer, something like, "may this be a new beginning of renewed service." 

On Tuesday we had our devotional from Spencer J Condie, an emeritus member of the Seventy.  He said a lot of things that I liked.  He talked on the first vision and it's central importance.  He told us to speak slowly and let the spirit carry the message into the hearts of the investigators especially when reciting the first vision.  He told us there is great converting power in the first vision.  When our investigators hear the first vision account, he says, they should be changed forever.  He told us to never let it become commonplace, never lose the wonder of it all for it is the investigators first time hearing it.  He told us to tell it as if you were a witness standing behind a tree in the grove. If questioned about the truthfulness of the first vision, he said we should tell the investigator to pray to God. "don't take my word for it.  Ask God. He was there." He said, "the things of God are understood by the Spirit of God." He shared a response a prophet made, i forgot which one, when someone told him that it was egotistical to say that we are the only true church.  He said, "I didn't say it, the Lord said it.  I'm only quoting him." He also explained the importance of testimony.  Quoting from Elder Ballard, "the Spirit cannot be restrained, when you bear pure testimony." The number one converter for people, President Monson found while Mission President in conducting a poll, was humble and simple testimony of the first vision.  Brother Condie explained that the 1st vision is at the heart of our religion.  These things reminded me of some leader of the church who said, we don't need to defend our words, they defend themselves.  He told us that we might need to teach investigators the same principle multiple times.  Look at 3 Nephi 11. The people didn't understand till the 3rd time.  3 times Nephi was constrained to kill Laban.  Joseph was appeared to 3 times by the angel Moroni that one night.  I liked that reminder that our investigators are the same way.  They might not understand till it is explained to them multiple times.  

I love what it says in Ch 8 of PMG on accountability.  " The attitude you have toward your mission experience is a reflection of your love toward your Heavenly Father and His Son." I love that.  That can apply to anything we do in the church I believe.  We need to make sure we have a good attitude and are obeying for the right reasons, out of love instead of fear or duty.  

I also love what it says in 3 Nephi 17:3.  This is a great principle to learning anything in the church, learning through the scriptures, or learning through the temple.  "Therefore, go unto your homes, and ponder upon the things which I have said, and ask the Father in my name, that ye may understand, and prepare your minds for the morrow and I come unto you again." All those steps are crucial.  Step 1 is pretty easy: return home. The others aren't as much.  Step 2: ponder on what you heard.  Step 3: ask Heavenly Father that you may understand. Step 4.  Prepare for the next time.  We were able to go the temple this morning and it was great.  After leaving though I realized I had not done very good at step 4 leading up to going to the temple.  I'm going to try and implement these steps better in my study and temple attendance. It is great counsel.  

We had our Priesthood lesson, Sacrament topic and our Sundaydevotional all on the Book of Mormon.  PMG says some great things about it in Ch 5.  I don't have time to talk about it.  I could talk forever on this topic.  It was a good reminder to always teach from the Book of Mormon and to always be studying from it every day.  I hope to be able to become more familiar with it in order to answer my Investigators questions with a scripture from the Book of Mormon.  I could answer their question using my words, but there is a power in the Book of Mormon. As it says in PMG. "The Book of Mormon, combined with the Spirit, is your most powerful resource in conversion." If you have any time, read Ch 5 from PMG.  It's awesome.  Ch 4 is also awesome.  And Ch 6.  And Ch 10.  Well, it's all pretty amazing.

Thanks for all your prayers and your support.  I know the Book of Mormon is God's word through the power of the Holy Ghost.  And by that same power, I know Joseph Smith was a prophet of God, the Savior lives, and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is once again established again on the earth preparatory to the second coming of the Messiah. 

Love,

Elder Stratford




4TH OF JULY IN THE MTC

July 6, 2015

Family,

Thanks for the packages.  The chips and pretzels were good.  The peas are amazing.  I'm really loving those.  Also the roles and other treats are great.  I shared the roles with my district Sunday night and they loved them.  They told me to tell you thanks for them.  
Sister Baker's performance was good.  They all played, but the husband.  One of the daughters was on the violin, another on the piano, another on the cello, and the boy on the guitar.  They played 4 songs. Love one another, I know that my redeemer lives and 2 other pieces.  It was good.  Sister Baker talked a little bit, played a song, talked a little bit, played a song, for the whole devo.  She was the guest speaker.  She encouraged us to give 100 percent and the big difference that has from giving 95 percent.  She also reminded us to "lean not unto thine own understanding."  President Burgess shared the same scripture during Mission Conference Sunday morning.  
I'm doing great.  Mandarin is coming.  I still feel quite a bit behind everyone else, but it is fine.  That is crazy Elder Oaks came.  Very cool.  Especially what he said of the ward.  Thanks for all your dear elder letters, emails and other notes.  I really appreciate them.

I forgot to tell you last week that we stopped teaching Zhong Yu Fan and got 2 new investigators, Muzhihao and Danshixian.  We have taught each of them 4 times and have our 5th lesson with Danshixian tonight.  We had a decent amount of teaching this week.  We taught 7 lessons.  I am picking up a little more of what the investigator is saying and am able to say what I want to say better.  It is great to have this practice teaching to help us  improve our teaching and learning to implement the teaching skills,Ch 10 of PMG, into our lessons to make them more effective and help us focus the lesson on the investigator and their needs.  

One of our investigators asked us this question during the lesson, "If I don't know about the commandments, am I sinning?" I didn't know this was asked till after, but my comp got it and tried to respond.  I spend the next personal study looking more into this topic to be able to have some scriptures on the topic and make sure I understood the doctrine clearly.  Helaman 7:23-24 reads, "For behold, this saith the Lord: I will not show unto the wicked of my strength, to one more than the other, save it be unto those who repent of their sins, and hearken unto my words.  Now therefore, I would that ye should behold, my bretheren, that it shall be better for the Lamanites than for you except ye shall repent.  For behold, they are more righteous than you, for they have not sinned against that great knowledge which ye have received; therefore the Lord will be merciful unto them..."  We know that it is much worse to sin, when we have increased knowledge. The more we know and receive the more responsible we are (D&C 82:3).  We learn in D&C 137:7-9 that those who died without the knowledge of the gospel, who would have received it, will inherit celestial glory.  Our duty is to warn since we have been warned (D&C 88:81-82).  A good reminder about the nature of repentance is found in D&C 82:7.  If we commit a sin we have repented of, the old sins come back.  If we did the previous sin, then we really didn't repent fully in the first place.  If we truly repented, we are changed and no longer have even a desire to do the things we once did.  Repentance is not a short process you check off and are done.  Repentance is continually ongoing.  We are continually proving to the Lord that we will never do the sin again, that we have changed.  We are always repenting (changing) of the sins we previously committed.  It is not a sin if they don't know about it, like scripture study, prayer, and others,  I believe, unless they know through the light of Christ that is in them that what they are doing is wrong.  We learn that the Lord can't look upon sin with any allowance (Alma 45:16) and there are countless ways to sin (Mosiah 4:29) so we need to be repenting everyday.  Plus the more we learn the more we need to repent, because the sins are counted more heavily because we know more.  The argument might come, "Well if the less I know, the less responsible I am, then I will not learn any more."  If you are saying this, then it is already to late.  We learn that man cannot be saved in ignorance (D&C 131:6).  It is no surprise that the leaders of the Church are so amazing.  They have so much knowledge and know so much, that they are constantly repenting, constantly changing and more aligning their will with the Will of our Father in Heaven.  I love the story of Howard W Hunter, who asked John Huntsman for a blessing.  When asked why the blessing was needed, the prophet responded, something like, "I had a bad thought about someone.".  He was so in line with the Savior's will that having just a bad thought about someone, made him feel not good and need a blessing. Hope that all made sense.  I'm scatter brained always, trying to type this all real fast in an hour.  

Saturday was fun.  We had a devo that night and got to go out on to the N parking lot to watch the fireworks. It was treat yourself day too.  We got a bunch of people's snacks and put them all in a box to have that night.  It was sweet. I love treat yourself day.  All day we were treating ourselves.  

Sunday morning we had a mission conference, which they have every fast sunday.  It was good.  We were reminded of pg 168 in PMG of doing good, not leaning unto our own understanding, and yielding our hearts unto God.  President Burgess shared a quote from one of the leaders of the church which was good. "It is better to be trusted than loved." He shared a story of President Hinckley and an asian man.  This man was in the united states for school and was about to head home.  While in the US, he had converted to the LDS church and President Hinckley got to talk to him for a minute before he left.  He came to understand that by converting to this church, he probably would lose his job he had in Asia, his family would probably disown him and he would be rejected by many.  President Hinckley asked him why he was doing this, why he would be willing to sacrifice so much.  The boy looked to him with tears in his eyes and said, "It's true isn't it? Then what else matters." President Hinckley felt ashamed for his asking that question and learned from that experience.  

My comp and I are practicing a cello and piano arrangement to hopefully perform before we leave.  We are able to practice during add study.  We are probably going to play, Consider the Lilies.  It's a really cool arrangement and fun to play.  

My comp and I got released from our calling to be Sacrament bread coordinators Sunday and were called to be Zone leaders.  We also got a new district leader.  We have a little over 50 in our zone and are getting more in a few weeks.  It will be a blessing to be able to serve our fellow missionaries and learn from them as we all try to come unto Christ and be better instruments in His hands.  I hope I can do better at being optimistic and be like the man in Elder Porter's talk who never got down, who when others were around Him, it was was impossible not to feel buoyed up.  I hope that I can stop worrying about myself, focus on others and be able to lift them up and strengthen them and be able to let them feel the Savior's love for them through me.  

I know that this gospel is true.  I feel the Spirit testify of this to me over and over again, as I pray, as I study the scriptures, as I sing praises to Him and as I serve his children.  I know that as the Lord learns to trust us by our following the prompting He gives to us through the Spirit, we will have opportunities to bless others lives and help them and to serve them. 

Thanks for all your prayers in my behalf. I am strengthened by them and by your great examples to me.

Love,


Elder Stratford








This is Josh and Laura Baker (Katie's friend).  The Baker's just moved into our ward and Jenny Oaks Baker (the violinist) was going to the MTC with her family to put on a fireside for the missionaries.  They kindly took some homemade rolls and treats to Josh for us.