Tuesday, September 8, 2015

EVERYTHING WE DO AFFECTS OTHERS

June 29, 2015

Family,

Thanks for sending the package.  The laundry bag is great and the snacks are great.  I think it came Wednesday.  Thanks for all the notes you left in my scriptures, they are really nice. Hope all is well back at home.  

Questions,

Abby - my comp has been a missionary as long as me.  It is a blessing to be serving Him all the time.
Katie - the food is fine.  It is just like the Cannon Center food.  We did have Costa Vida and Chick-fil-A Cater this week though.  That was good.  
Mom - my finger is fine.  It still hurts a little to give handshakes and play basketball, but feels better. Thanks for all the kind notes and letters. If you have time, I could go for another bag of those Salt and Vinegar Kettle chips and some of those buffalo pretzels.  
Dad - I bought a few things from the MTC Store.  I used the card.  Don't know about the laptops.


This week was great.  I see Elder Gilbert and Elder Cole a lot.  Elder Gilbert was called to be the district leader.  I just finished playing basketball with them.  It was a lot of fun.
I met Iain's student he was telling me to look out for.  His name is Elder Hawkes.  I knew who he was, just didn't know he was Iain's student till last Sunday.  He is in the classroom next to me. He seems like a pretty cool kid.  I got to host the new missionaries this week, which was a lot of fun.  I can't believe I am already almost done with 3 weeks.  Time goes really quickly.  During sacrament yesterday, the fire alarm went off during a missionaries talk.  So we all exited the building for about 15 min and went in to finish.  That was pretty weird. All the apostles and first presidency were here this past week for the new mission president Seminar.  Because of that, all of 1M was closed off from Wed till today.  The cafeteria is in there, so they moved the eating spot to where the basketball hoops are.  So we weren't able to play basketball all week till today.  Somehow the rumor got started that we were going to have one of the 15 prophets speak to us for the Devo on Sunday.  My district wanted good seats so we showed up 2 hrs early to get in line.  It was pretty funny watching everyone run in to the devo area when they let us in.  About everybody in the MTC had heard the same rumor.  It turned out to be the Managing Director of the MTC who spoke instead.  

After the movie last Sunday night, we all lined up outside our the doors to the building with our classrooms in it.  It is a tradition to sing "God be with you till we meet again" to all the leaving Mandarin speakers.  That was kind of cool.  We had a good devotional on Tuesday and were able to perform "Precious Savior, Dear Redeemer." We sang this awesome arrangement of the piece.  I have never heard it before.  The devotional speaker was Elder Nash of the Seventy.  He had some good things to say about the importance of the plan of salvation.  He encouraged us to not hold anything back from the Lord.  During the devotional, I was reminded of what President Eyring said in a talk back in 2007.  He said, "the Lord can help you see that others are watching you.  He can help you see that their eternal future is shaped by what they observe you do or not do.  Your simple thanks for their influence for good on you can lift them more than you imagine. When you ask God, He can and will reveal to you the opportunities to lift others for Him." I love that.  A lot of the time, I think we convince ourselves that it doesn't matter much what we do.  It is easy to say, "I'll do it anyway, it's not that big of a deal.  Anyway, the worst it will do is hurt me." I think Satan loves to have us think that lie, that our actions only affect ourselves.  Everything we do affects others.  So we might be good to consider the impact of a decision before we do it.  

I am still thinking a lot about Humility and Patience this week. I love what the Lord told the sons of Mosiah before they left on their 14 year mission to the Lamanites.  In Alma 17:11 He said, "Go forth among the Lamanites, thy brethren, and establish my word; yet ye shall be patient in long-suffering and afflictions, that ye may show forth good examples unto them in me, and I will make an instrument of thee in my hands unto the salvation of many souls." What an amazing promise, but which is conditional on our patience.  Then Elder Monson said this about patience, "Life is full of difficulties, some minor and others of a more serious nature.  There seems to be an unending supply of challenges for one and all.  Our problem is that often we expect instantaneous solutions to such challenges, forgetting that frequently the heavenly virtue of patience is required." In Alma 32, we learn of the essential attribute of patience.  Whatever it is we are trying to grow, and strengthen in our lives, we learn that patience is vital.  "But if ye will nourish the word, yeak, nourish the tree as it beginneth to grow, by your faith with great diligence, and with patience looking forward to the fruit thereof, it shall take root; and behold it shall be a tree springing up unto everlasting life.  And because of your diligence and your faith and yourpatience with the word in nourishing it, that it may take root in you, behold, by and by ye shall pluck the fruit thereof, which is most precious, which is sweet above all that is sweet, and which is white above all that is white, yea, and pure above all that is pure; and ye shall feast upon this fruit even unto ye are filled, that ye hunger not, neither shall ye thirst.  Then, my brethren, ye shall reap the rewards of your faith, and your diligence, and patience, and long-suffering, waiting for the tree to bring forth fruit unto you." I love that.  I understand the importance of faith and diligence, but I have never considered how crucial patience is.  The fruit only comes by way of patience.  I hope we can be more patient with our shortcomings, not to laziness or complacency, but patient.  

I love what President Benson says about Pride and humility.I'll just pick out a few things I loved from reading his talk, Beware of Pride, this time around. He teaches us that "pride is a very misunderstood sin and many are sinning in ignorance." "We are tempted daily to elevate ourselves above others and diminish them." "Pride is a sin that can readily be seen in others but is rarely admitted in ourselves." "Pride is manifest in "faultfinding, gossiping, envying, coveting, and withholding gratitude and praise that might lift another." "The proud do not receive counsel or correction easily." "Pride is a damning sin in the true sense of the word.  It limits or stops progression."  By learning more about pride and what it all encompasses, we can better learn how we can become more humble.  It is really interesting that withholding praise that might lift another is pride.  I am trying to eliminate these attributes in my life and know that I can through diligence, faith, patience, and the help of our Savior's Atonement.  I also love what Elder Benson said on being humble.  "We can humble ourselves by esteeming others as ourselves, and lifting them as high or higher than we are." I love that.  I am good at trying to stay a cut above the rest and esteeming myself as higher than others.  For 1 example, I am good at learning something that I love, and not sharing what I learned or when I see an opportunity to help someone in their teaching to help them become better, sometimes I keep to myself.  This is a hard attribute to attain and we should be constantly striving to better develop it in our lives.  We can really believe and follow the word of the hymn, "I need the every hour." If we want to come unto Christ more, if we are feeling frustrated or troubled, we might take some advice from one of my favorite hymns #223.  We should forget about ourselves, and do something good in the world to day.  We should look for the opportunities that are right in our way to bless and serve our fellowman.

We had our first TRC this Saturday.  This is where we go and teach actual members and/or real nonmembers 2 short 20 min lessons.  It was an awesome experience.  The spirit was strong as we taught them a little more and testified about the Atonement to them.  The Zhongwen (Chinese) is still coming, but there is no barrier for the Spirit.  There are many things we learned to improve our teaching as well.  Learning to teach well is going to be a lifelong pursuit, but through diligence, faith and patience, we can become better.

We also got to meet our Mission Presidents this week.  We met with them for about an hour.  They seem to be really cool.  They are both converts to the church and we heard a little bit about their family and their conversion.  They both were born in Hong Kong and moved to California at around the age of 18.  Sister Lam was baptized and took the children to church for about 10 years before President Lam became a member.  He says, he was actually converted first intellectually.  His son had him read some of the Book of Mormon and after reading it, he realized that there was no way in 65 days, 90 working days, He could of written that Book.  Especially considering that it took 20 scholars about 5 years to translate the Bible.  He was only a member for 4 years, when he was called to be a Bishop and 5 years later, a Stake President for 10 years. Now he is going to be a Mission President.  You can tell He is a man with amazing faith and obedience.  He actually has a tutor to help him learn Cantonese.  He can speak street language fluently, but cannot speak any Church language. And he can only speak a little Mandarin, enough to get by.  

During choir practice on Tuesday, I learned more deeply the amazing story of the prodigal son as found in Luke 15.  The father, after his son left, I imagine, everyday sat outside and look out to the horizon to see if his son would come back.  The son we learn came to himself and began to return to his father, hoping to be his servant, hoping for anything better than how he was currently living.  We learn in verse 20 that, "When he was yet a far way off, his Father saw him and had compassion and ran and fell on his neck and kissed Him." We are all the prodigal son and the father is our Savior.  He is always waiting for us to return, to turn around and come back.  He is overjoyed when we are repenting and coming back to Him.  That was very out of the ordinary for the Father to leave his property and run to the son.  Normally back then, the father would wait for the person to come to him.  Also if he did come down, he would be walking, not running.  Just like this father in this story, the Savior is hoping desperately for us to come unto him.  He is waiting and watching for us to turn around, and when we do, he will come running down, overjoyed, to welcome us back.  
Like the Laborers in the Vineyard, it doesn't matter the hour in which we arrive, we each get the same reward.  The important thing is that we come, that we get there.  There are many things we each can do to come close to the Savior and follow him more exactly.

I love each of you. Thanks so much for your prayers in my behalf.  I feel strengthened every day from them and from the grace of our Savior's Atonement in my life to help me do things that I could not do on my own without His help.  I know this church is true.  I know Jesus lives. I know that as we are striving to have the Spirit more in our lives and to follow the promptings we receive, we will be blessed with an increase in our recognizing of the spirit to help life and bless others for Him.  What a blessing this gospel is.  I am so blessed to be able to be born into a family with goodly parents who love the Lord.  I am truly strengthened by my family inheritances.  Thanks so much for your examples in my behalf.  You strengthen me and inspire me to do better and to be better.

Love,


Elder Stratford






Elder Stratford and Elder Gilbert




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