Monday, September 5, 2016

CHINESE NEW YEAR!

February 10, 2016
Family,

Happy Chinese New Year!! Go bang some drums and a cowbell or something.

I do that Sister Hansen that just came back. I saw her pic in some member records from the Tin Shui Wai ward. 

All our investigators are in Mainland for the New Year and nobody really wants to talk on their equivilent of Christmas, but that is ok. We were able to meet with a former investigator that we haven't been able to meet with for over 2 months. That was awesome. He got a new job and works everyday from 7 at night to 7 in the morning. He will be coming to church on Sunday. He and his son are doing great.

We had a lot of trainings recently. We had Zone training last Friday. The focus was on the Sabbath Day and inviting people to church. They have a goal this month to invite 2842 people to church as a zone. We also had Zone Conference yesterday and watched a missionary broadcast. It was good. Learned more about the role the spirit plays and how important listening is as we teach. We also have Mission Conference on the 22nd or 23 and Elder Stevensen is coming. I'm excited for that.

I recently read a talk, The Balm of Gilead, by President Packer. Great talk that reminds us of the importance of your thoughts and making sure that we do not keep anything that is not edifying.

At the end of Zone Conference, they had the 3 sisters that will be leaving this transfer bear their testimonies. As the first sister got up and bore her testimony, the spirit filled the room and tears were brought to my eyes as I heard her powerful testimony of the Savior. It made me want to be better and to serve Him more. Then, the other 2 sisters came up, but I had no such feelings. Their words were similar, but it was much different. That was a testimony builder to me on the importance of the spirit and a reminder to always strive to be worthy and exactly obedient so I can be a conduit for the Spirit to teach the Lord's investigators here in Hong Kong.


Love,

Elder Stratford


We saw this out our window while studying.



Chen DX and Roy.
Chen is a former investigator who has gone through 4 baptismal dates in the past. Found him when calling through old records. We haven't been able to meet with him for about 2 months and finally saw him again. He moved to a different part still in our area and if we can just get him to come to church and help him understand about that, he'll become an awesome member. His wife is in Mainland caring for her parents.


hot pot meal we had. delicious.



Elder VanDyke's New Year gown

HOPE CAN TOTALLY CHANGE OUR WAY OF THINKING

January 25, 2016

Family,

Thanks for the emails.  Also, thank you for sending the sheet music and the card. I love that Blake said his own prayer. That's awesome.  Hope all goes well with the surgery. That sounds brutal. I read some of the obedience talk you send me again. It's a great talk. Thanks so much. Its prompted some thinking and pondering and some changes. You expained everything so clearly. It  always is remarkable to me how when we prepare by the spirit, the listeners will be more able to learn by the same spirit. But it makes perfect sense. When you are teaching by the spirit, you will be teaching to peoples needs and what they need to hear. Not only that, I believe when the things you say are what the Lord would have you say, then they are more clear and complete, allowing the spirit to testify of their truthfulness. This in turn leads people to want to change, because of what they heard and more importantly what they felt.

Our investigators are doing well. Zheng is off to mainland for the chinese new year and won't be back till the 18th. I'm worried all of our investigators are going to leave, so it might be a slow next few weeks. 

We met with A-zheng and had a great lesson. One of the members and her are really good friends and she is exercising a lot of faith. It is exciting.

Met with Liu DX and tried to give him a book of Mormon, but he refused it. 

I am learning more about hope lately, and that is a pretty amazing aspect of the gospel, that we can have this hope which can totally change our way of thinking and our perspective to one of enthusiasm, optimism, confidence and patient perserverence. In Chinese the word for perspective is muguang. the guang means light. so by having this hope, we have more light in our eyes, we can see more clearly and our future looks more brilliant. That's a pretty amazing blessing.

Love,

Elder Josh Stratford


we went to monkey mountain last p-day. pretty fun.








couldn't resist getting a pic with this. people here are very creative.





some dude trying to protect himself from the rain.



Elder Darrington praying out of personal study.


me doing a recording.




i also took some pics outside our apartment with flat stanley.

THE IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING

January  17, 2016
Family,

Mom - thats awesome there is so much snow. I figured I better right clearly on the address for the package, so i wrote really slow. It is pretty funny about handwriting actually.  Elder Darrington is writing a few sisters and one of them wrote me a letter. So I responded. Later, she send me a paper with Elder Darringtons letter that had all the letters of the alphabet outlined so i could practice my handwriting, i guess it was really bad.  With the Birthday package, Elder Darrington and Elder Winwood also threw in notes. They found out it was your birthday and wanted to throw one in. Elder Darrington loves to receive mail and Elder Winwood is trying to write a lot of people so he can have some mail, so they'd love it if you each could write a quick letter back. Don't have to though. They are kind of jokesters. I don't remember what they put in the letters, but they were laughing as they wrote the letters. They kept asking me what you and sadie were like and if i thought they would write them back.

Dad - that's a serious bummer about the ACL. that sounds horrible. Good news is you'll be really good at ping pong because you'll have no other sports to play, so we can play when I get back. Also, thank you for sending the talk on obedience. it was amazing. I'll have to reread it this week. I flew threw it real fast last p-day and there were a lot of good things in there i want to go back and review. Thanks for the sports updates. That's crazy Sydney and Jake are moving to Hong Kong. I'm sure they'll go to the English ward. They have one here, i think it is on the island, not sure. just kidding, i just remembered they have 4 different english wards. not sure where they are. not in my area. Good news is a lot of people here can speak english, except for the old people. Maybe they can teach me some cantonese. If they don't like cold weather, they came to the right place.

This week has been pretty interesting with our investigators. For the first time, Zheng didn't show up to a lesson. It was because the rain. People here are kind of scared of the rain. I guess it rains a lot and pretty bad monsoons in april - july. i just missed them last year, so I am looking forward to that. Anyway, we are planning on teaching him tonight.

Also, we are meeting with this lady who randomly came to church last sunday. We thought it was a former we called, but it wasn't. she moved to Hong Kong last saturday from mainland, and was passing the chapel and decided to come in and check it out. She is great. While I was on exchanges, Elder Darrington and Ashton met with her and invited her to be baptized. She said yes. Amazing. They invited her to pray that night and she said, do i have to wait till night? 

We also have a new investigator Liu DX. He is an old man and we had a great lesson about some HTBT points and prayer. He changed a lot from the beginning of the lesson to the end of the lesson. I taught with Elder Cornilles. He is a great elder.

Haven't been able to meet with Chen or the others. 

A turnover we had from some member in Tolo Harbor has stood us up 5 times this week. pretty weird. we confirm her the night before and hours before the lesson, yet she doesn't come or forgets. We then reschedule her and she is happy to meet. kind of weird.

Learned a lot  this week on the importance of listening and how important that is. PMG Ch 10 is amazing. every time i review it. so much to learn, luckily we have a lifetime.

Thank you for your prayers. 


Love,

Elder Josh Stratford


before district meeting. Elder Copley on the far left is my district leader.


Elder Winwood and Elder Vandyke. we found some masks while eating lunch at the chapel.


people crossing the road at Tai Tong Road light rail stop

random dude holding a pole.

Elder Winwood on Elder Darrington's back.

it was kind of cold one morning.

our kitchen. listening to music or watching a i'm a mormon as we cook lunch


Don't know what Elder Darrington is doing.


Elder Winwood, Elder Darrington and Elder Vandyke.

We stopped by kwai fung on the way back from kowloon and they have really cheap gummies. These guys also bought some ice cream and smoothies.



some dude waiting in line for the MTR. people here have crazy hair.




tai tong road in Yuen Long



Sunday, September 4, 2016

TOO MANY DOGS

January 10, 2016
Family,

Mom - Things in Yuen Long are great.  Bowling was fun. I bowled ok. Won 1 game of 2. Today we might got for a hike. We have to head down to the mission office to pick up some stuff first though.

This week we were able to meet with Zheng DX planning to drop him, but instead gave him a baptismal invitation and date. He says he is not ready, but agreed to prepare for the date. It is interesting to see him slowly change as he reads from the Book of Mormon and prays everday. It's pretty amazing. 

We went over to Sam's house thursday and luckily he was home. We were able to help him with his english and invited him to the ward sports night. He loves to play basketball, so he and his friends are planning to come this friday night to play some basketball with some missionaries and ward members. 

Our other investigators are not really investigators I guess. Chen DX disappeared and the rest are the same. 

A few weeks ago we received a referral from some other missionaries and have been trying to meet with her and were finally able to schedule a time for tonight. We are excited for that. 

One funny thing this week happened as we were street contacting in Tin Shui Wai. The rain started to come down really heavy and we forgot our umbrellas, so we got soaking wet real fast. It was good though, because people were willing to talk to us. When they saw us wading through the water, they called us over to have some protection under their umbrella. That provided an opportunity for us to talk to them. They seemed to be more willing to listen and nicer and more sympathetic because we were so wet. So that was a blessing. 

Another funny thing this week happened as we went to visit a member and his daughter (she  is 8 and a half and hasn't been baptized). It is pretty interesting because the dad wants her to grow up a little bit before she gets baptized. We went over to help strengthen his testimony and help his daguther with english. Anyway, so as we were walking up to the house, we had to walk through 2 other houses to get to his. As we were doing this, this black dog comes around the corner and was very angry at us. He was yelling and barking really loud and wasn't about to let us pass by. So we started to walk away as the dog followed us for a while to make sure we left. We decided we would go to the house the back way, make a circle aroud a few houses so as to not disturb the dog. We were starting to head to the house from behind, when another dog (behind a fence) started barking really loud at us. This is very normal. The problem is that this dog barking alerted that same black dog who came to check out what was going on. We were about a good 30 yrds away when the black dog spotted us. Right after he spotted us, he had had enough and started sprinting full speed at us. So naturally, we started to sprint in the other direction. After about a minute, the dog gave up, it had kept us away. The only problem now was that about every dog in the neighborhood was alert and barking very loudly. There was about 20 dogs all going at the same time all around us, luckily behind fences. Anyway, so after waking up the whole neighborhood and making everyone wonder what in the world was going on, we were able to find somebody to walk with us to the house. Since the black dog knew him, we were able to get into Zhang DX house and teach him, just a few minutes late.

One little miracle this week was last night. We went to visit Zhang DX with a member and her kids. We arrived and nobody was home. We waited about 10 min and were about to leave, when the wife came on her bike. So we were able to get into the house and talk to the wife for a minute (she has no interest and is a buddhist). We again were about to leave since Zhang wasn't answering his phone and his daughter wasn't there, when mandy (the daughter) runs though the door with Zhang DX behind her. We were able to teach them both, help mandy with her english and sing "I am a child of God" together. We easily could of missed them, but we stayed one more minute and that allowed us to visit them.

Another miracle this week was having a former investigator show up to church. We spend a few hours calling through former records one day and had talked to a few people, not able to schedule anyone, but had one say they would come to church. Now, this happens often, and nobody every shows up, they just say they will come so you stop bugging them over the phone. But one of the people actually showed up. It was a total suprise. She made some friends with the ward and we are planning on meeting her this Thursday. 

One thing I really liked from my studies this morning was in Alma 9 I think. Alma and Amulek it says went up to the people of Ammonihah and they were filled with the spirit. They weren't filled with the spirit and then went up. They first showed their faith and obedience and acted on that by going up to the city, then having them be filled with the sprit. That would take a lot of courage, considering that Alma had just been to the city, just preached to them and had just been reviled and spit upon. That scripture reminded me of something I read a few weeks ago from Elder Renlund last conference. He said, "one of God's greatest gifts to us is the joy of trying again, for no failure every need be final. Even if we've been a conscious, deliberate sinner or have repeatedly faced failure and disappointment, the moment we decided to try again, the Atonement of Christ can help us." So it is that decision, that change of mind. Right when we decided to change and act, the Atonement can help us. 

I have reviewed Brad Wilcox "His grace is sufficient" talk recently. It is interesting that people think that Christ's grace and his Atonement kick in only after all we can do. That is not true. Christ isn't the light at the end of the tunnel, he says, Christ is the light that brings you through the tunnel. He isn't the after-burner that kicks in after we have expended all our effort is gone, he is our constant energy source.  People often read the scripture 2 Nephi 25:26 as saying, "We are saved by grace after all that we (individually) can do."  Brother Wilcox helps us see that really, "We are saved by grace after all that we (Christ and us) can do together." 

I was reading about Amulek as well and how he explains his story to the people of Ammonihah after Alma had spoken to them. I think I am and a lot of us are a lot like him at times. He said, "I did harden my heart, for I was called many times and I would not hear; therefore I knew concerning these things, yet I would not know." This goes along well with my ponderize last week which was Alma 5:38. The Lord is always calling us. We just need to hear. and not put off his promptings and his beckonings. Amulek knew the things were true, but he would not follow what he knew to be true. He resisted at first and didn't allow the Savior to lift and help and inspire him and change him. 

Thank you for all your prayers. I know that as we hearken unto the voice of the Lord, as we don't just listen, but also obey and faithfully follow what we know to be true, in that very moment the Lord will strengthen us through His Amazing Grace.


Love,

Elder Stratford


random pic of Elder Darrington

Elder Darrington stretching


much more convienent to eat like this. then you don't get all that red stuff and butter on your hands


HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELDER DARRINGTON

1/3/16
Family,

Thanks for the updates about every thing back at home. 

Our investigators are about the same. We can't get in contact to Wang Le (he is the man that randomly came to church a few weeks ago). Nevermind. I just remembered he answered his phone a few days ago and told us that he has no time. 

Unfortunately, Chen DX didn't show up to church, he told us he would. And we couldn't meet with him this week. 

Zheng DX was good. We met him on Monday planning to drop him, and he had read 1 Nephi 2-6 and when we asked him about his prayers, he told us that as he prayed he felt a calm and peaceful feeling. He acted very different than he usually does. It was an amazing miracle. We also taught him on Wednsday and helped him learn some english. He is continuing to read the Book of Mormon. We plan to give him a baptismal date this week. I don't why we haven't yet. We need to. It will be hard for him to come to church. 

Other investigators are the same. Haven't been able to meet with them.

Another cool miracle that happened this week was with Kenneth. He showed up to our building wanting to know more about us and what we are about. Anyway, he is agnostic and actually was doing this for a personal project, not really interested. I'll tell you more about it in a recording, since I am out of time, but we commited him to pray and had some powerful moments with him.

Love you and thank you for your prayers.


Elder Stratford

Elder Darrington

sorry made a mistake on that last one. the computer is being weird and I am trying to figure out how to send them since I can't see what they look like, I just have the numbers. This one is of Elder Darrington.

member had us over for dinner for Elder Darrington's Birthday. Gave him this cake. He mentioned that this was his favorite type of cake, so  the member took about 1/3 of the cake and dumped it on his plate. 

they tried hard. not quite.


New suits and ties. the ties were $2 USD each. i am wearing Elder Darringtons suit with my pants.

Elder Darrington bought a selfie stick. useful for taking pics with members and other uses.


random pic south of Yuen Long

FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT AND GRATITUDE FOR CHRIST

12/27/15
Family,

Thank you, thank you for all the letters. Thank you for all the kind things you said. That was my Christmas gift I wasn't supposed to open till Christmas Day. Great present.  I love reading them. I love hearing about everything back at home, hearing your thoughts, and testimonies. I have been blessed with an amazing family. 

I apologize for the many recordings. I got a little carried away. 

This week was one of our slowest as far as teaching goes. We weren't able to teach any lessons this week, haven't been able to contact most of our investigators, but we were able to get to know the members better and visit them. We were able to visit Zhu JM (the reactivated member), Yu JM, Lok JM, Hamilton Family (he is a larry), Zhou Family. I don't why I just told you all of those, but whatever. One thing that I want to start doing as we visit members is share with them Doctrine and Covenants 58:6-7. We were able to do this with Zhou Family, the ward mission leader and his wife. We want to, along with this scripture, communicate our new commitment this year of obedience, our desire to share our testimonies and prepare the world for the Second Coming of Christ and then invite the members to do this with us. It is a powerful scripture and we hope we all can do a little bit better at sharing Christ's wonderful gospel this year.

One weird thing that happened this week happened while we were preparing to teach english class on Saturday.  Some guy walks in to the church building and comes up to us and explains that he just saw our building and was curious about it. He went on to explain that he wanted to learn more about our church and other religions. He explained that he is doing a personal project about other religions and specifically missionaries, monks and others who sacrifice a lot of time for their religion. He calls himself agnostic, like many here. We were able to answer some of his questions, bear testimony to him and help him to feel the spirit and power of our message. We invited Him to come to church, and he said he would come check it out. 

One tender mercy this week happened yesterday while at church. I didn't realize it till after, but my thoughts had turned a little pessemistic and negative. As we had the opportunity to sing, pray, and ponder while we attended 3 differnet wards, I became filled with the spirit and gratitude for Christ and the Sabbath Day and the opportunity it provides us to be renewed, refreshed, and restrengthen for the week. As we were heading home, I realized how much my thoughts had changed. They were full of hope and optimism about the future. I noticed I was more full of love toward others. My perspective had changed. It was amazing to see the stark change in my way of thinking.

I know the Sabbath Day is an amazing blessing and can be a delight for us each Sunday. 

Elder Stratford


 
Elder Darrington on the phone for 30 minutes with Qui JM


they package vanilla wafers seperately.


Elder Darrington and Elder Winwood. Christmas Eve.


Random car on the side of the road




text from Jonah. bummer.

Elder lai, now brother Lai, came back to visit with his family from Austrailia. He finished his mission last transfer.


pic before Elder George left.

Elder Winwood and Elder George. I gave them these hunting masks as a joke for christmas since they are always cold.


hat i gave away for the white elephant gift. it is a badmitton hat i think. super long.

Christmas party dinner at Yuen Long chapel. that's not all of it.


classic bike here in Hong Kong. People ride bikes with all sizes of wheels and most are a lot smaller than american bike wheels. This one was extreme.